How to Have a Meaningful Relationship by Cindy Leong
Cindy is a Relationship Coach and Founder at Relationship Studio. Her superpower is Enneagram personality profiling, which she has done for many couples and businesses across the region. Blissful Studios developed Cindy’s Brandstory which you can learn more about here. We’ve asked her to share with us an insightful article her area of expertise, relationships. Cindy, take it away!
Meaningful Relationships are priceless
Every person have to understand that everything begin from themselves because they are 50% of the equation when it comes to relationship building. You have to first remove the tinted glasses before you can see a person clearly, for who he or she really is. While I can give many relationship tips, here are the pertinent ones that will make great positive difference in your relationship:
1. Understand yourself thoroughly
Know who you are, what you want, where you are heading. Then you will know what to do, who to find to complement you, be it your personal life, or in your business. This can be done through Enneagram personality profiling. You may know what you know, but you’ll never know what you don’t know.
2. Work on yourself
Develop your strengths and work on the weaknesses, be the best you can be, not who you are not. Develop a personal mission to develop and cultivate yourself, so you can be all-rounded.
3. Time to shine
Find your internal source of confidence and remove the fear to shine! Your positive energy will start attracting positive things towards you.
4. Communicate
Do not be afraid to share what’s in your heart. Communication is the Key to life! You’re worthy of sharing your views and your feelings. Help others know what you need/want so misunderstandings can be prevented.
5. Grooming is extremely important!
As much as the heart is important and you are full of ‘good’ qualities, only God knows. If you can’t even show you take pride in your grooming, you can take good care of your hygiene, you are sending to others a message that you are not capable of taking care of yourself. He/she will really doubt your ability to take care of things.
6. Do not be so quick to judge
Hate to break it to you, but more often than not, you may be wrong.
Give people 2 dates to prove themselves before you write them off, and don’t always go for the top tier good looking ones.. Because they may have many suitors and you may not like to be in a competition. They may not treasure you as much as you want as there are too many options available.
Sometimes, learn to spot the gem and do a little polishing. You may have helped the person unlock some doors which he/she hasn’t even explored before! This is when you can confidently keep the good gem to yourself.
7. Remove those tinted glasses!
Instead of ticking off the checklist, learn to see the potential in a person, and understand how the person can help you grow and vice versa. When the heart is open, the lover appears.
With the help of these tips coupled with Enneagram profiling, you will be able to identify your true personality and identify best who would suit you.
- Cindy Leong, Relationship Studio
